If you are looking for love or your current relationship has become stagnant, feng shui can help put love and romance in your life. Feng Shui is an ancient art that helps direct positive energy into your home and life. You can enhance love in your life through proper furniture placement and the use of colors.
First, you need to clear out the old energy, especially if you have recently ended a bad relationship. It is important to cleanse the area of negative energy. Any items associated with the old relationship should be cleansed or removed. You can cleanse the items with water or set them in the sunlight. If you want to make a clean break from the old relationship, you can throw the items away, give them to a friend, donate them or include them in a garage sale.
Next, you will need to cleanse the space. Since you want to attract romantic love into your life you will need to cleanse the space in your bedroom. You can do this by opening the windows to allow air and sunlight into the room. You can burn incense such as sage, sandalwood, frankincense or pine to cleanse and purify the space.
Once the room is cleansed of negative energy you need to make sure your furniture is arranged properly. The bed is the main focus of the bedroom and an important item in maintaining a healthy relationship. Even if you are single, the bed should not be since it is not a good aspect for drawing love into your life. According to feng shui principles, a queen-sized bed is best for the relationship. The bed should be placed against a solid wall and should have a solid headboard made of wood. One side of the bed should not be placed against a wall. The space on each side of the bed should be adequate for each person to walk around and get in and out of bed. Each person should be able to see the door from the bed, but the bed should not be placed facing the door.
Bedroom furniture should be used in pairs. For instance, two identical or similar nightstands and lamps should be placed on each side of the bed. Statues and wall hangings should portray romantic scenes. Add live plants to the bedroom to attract positive energy. Place statues or images of mandarin ducks, doves and dolphins in the bedroom since they are all symbolic of love.
Use color to enhance your love life. Pink and red can help draw love into your life while shades of red and purple can add passion to your relationship. You can add splashes of color with a comforter, drapes, pillow shams or throw pillows. Place red and pink scented candles on your nightstands. You can also burn incense in your bedroom to help draw love into your life or spice up your current relationship. Scents such as hibiscus, lavender, jasmine, rose and patchouli are beneficial for drawing love into your life. Add fresh flowers to your bedroom also. Your bedroom should be a place for love and rest. Make it a peaceful, romantic haven and the rest will fall into place.